Wednesday, 16 October 2019

Cheers to Men!! You are amazing

Hello, to the beautiful people out there. I am here today with my views again and it might not be at all related to you in any sense. If my views offends anyone I am sorry in advance.

Men! Who are they?? Half of the human population on earth! When it comes to the species Men we are always stereotypical. Many thoughts come to our head. They are the most heartless emotionless people alive. Are they so?? Well ladies you might say, "Yes they are." They broke your heart, betrayed you, you have suffered because of them in offices, metros etc. Yeah that's true even I am heartbroken. Are they everywhere around you? I bet not. Just one suggestion stop generalizing that all men are same, men will be men, men are dogs. Ladies that got emotions too which they hardly show because since childhood they were taught men don't cry. Even they go through heartbreak. Trust me me when you are in trouble you are always a phone call away from them. When I say "them" every men comes under it be it father, brother, friend, best friends, son, husband, boyfriend etc. Ladies you are blessed by nature that is you can create a human being nurture it. Please stop judging them, rather appreciate them. The way you want to breathe, let them do too.
One question, How many times you have actually appreciated or said amazing to a Man? We have two population on this planet men & women. Appreciate each other grow together let the hatred go and bring some love in between. I don't know about you but whenever I am scared in the middle of the night and there is no one around I always end up calling a men be it my father, my best friend or friend or my brother. Why I do that because I feel safe and secured. We always end up saying behind every successful man there is a woman. Don't you think it's other way round too. They are always supporting you to stand on your feet, they are always there so that you can lean on them, they are standing next to you. Haven't you ever got into an incident where men comes up to help you but they are all strangers though.  Do you know why women empowerment is happening? Because they are supporting you to grow, they are nurturing you.
You might feel I am not even saying anything for the women who are suffering here. We are the victims of many events and incidents, that's true. I can't disagree with it because I was also one of the victims. I realised creeps are everywhere even among the women species. Might be you have come across a few instances where you woman friend or best friend stabbed you behind your back for their benefits. I feel almost everyone has gone through that where a woman becomes the enemy of the woman. So will you stop supporting women? No right!! So not all men are same.  They need our support too. If you want to evolve even more you have let go your negative perspectives about them. If some men made you cry but some made you smile hold your hand to be with you. The first man of your life taught you to walk by holding you, he never let you fall.
This post is for all the amazing men out there!! I am grateful to have you around, without your support I might have been shattered and couldn't be in the position where I am. I specifically want to thank to a few men in my life. My father who taught me to walk, who compromised his own happiness to help me grow and achieve my dreams. To my best buddy who makes me smile through different memes whenever I am low, who is always there to hold me whenever I fall. To a friend who is posted in Kashmir but he always make sure if I am doing well, who stands for me like he does for our nation. At last but not the least I want to thank  to all the men who were there who let me grow and never stopped me doing that. To the stranger who came to help me when I was stranded alone in the metro station who stood next to me so that no one would bother me.
Lastly I will say MEN YOU ARE AMAZING! Without you we would have never been filled with love. Thanks for everything you did and you do for us. Thank you standing for women when they through a lot. Thank you for being there with us.

PS- THANK YOU!

Keep loving, Stay happy

Monday, 19 August 2019

You are always there for yourself!

Someone commented on my previous blog that it gave him hope! It just made my day and I am here with a new post hopeful that it will make someone hopeful again. First all I want to thank everyone to take out your precious time to read my blogs.
So I want to talk about you yes you. You are beautiful and strong.
Sometimes you might feel like a failure. But ask yourself, "Are you a failure or its just a feeling?" You survived today and I am pretty sure you did achieve something today it might be little, small or big but you did. No matter what happens there's always 1% strength left somewhere deep down inside us. What you need to do is to bring out that 1% strength. Don't let the feeling of failure to dominate that inner strength. Always remember that 1% strength will help you to rise like a Phoenix. Life's situation will drag you down many times but you need to remember is your strength because you own it. Just forget every word in the dictionary expect the word "STRONG". Whatever I am saying right now might not make you feel stronger and it's no bad thing but remember the one who's gonna hold you tight is that 1% strength inside you. You know that well whatever makes you broke but hope is still left inside and you know that exists because you are strong. You believe that you are a strong person. Always remember at the end of the tunnel there's always light. 

PS:  Life is full of colour and happiness the bad time will pass away. So be strong and hold yourself tight.

Keep loving, stay happy

Saturday, 6 July 2019

Healing! What is it?


Hey everyone I  wanted to talk something different today. So here I am again that I have learned from my experiences. Mental healing! 
Healing is a process. As someone said slow and steady wins the race.  Same goes with the healing. It's a slow process. If there is a physical wound then what do we try to do?? We try to heal it right. So same goes with the mental wound but there we make a mistake, we intend not to heal it. As much as your physical wound needs to get heal so that we don't get hurt and same is with mental health. Healing takes time so take your time. 
So lets talk, what is mental wound? Depression, anxiety, fear, loneliness. 
As the Era is getting more tech savvy we are facing these problems. We are watching various motivational videos, reading motivational books but are we actually following it?? Do we want to follow it. I have an example.
You just broke up.. You are upset and depressed. It's the law of nature. You lose someone today that you are attached you gonna suffer. It is anyways gonna affect you mentally. But that does mean that you gonna take a bad step. Calm yourself down as I said healing is a slow process. You are in no rush to forget the person. Loosing someone forever is hard but it's more harder when you lose someone who still exsists. You know he/she is still there and they have moved on. Don't loose your temper or don't get anxious. Be who you are. Try to do a little something that makes you happy. Try to do a little something everyday and with that slow process your wound will get healed. You don't deserve to suffer. You live your own story. Come out of that bubble of depression and take a deep breath because as the universe wants you to be happy.

PS: Life is a blank page. Write your own story!

Keep loving, stay happy

Friday, 24 May 2019

Delhi! Here comes to an end of one chapter in my life's book

Delhi!! I landed in this "dilwalo ka Seher" 8 years back. Since childhood I had the dream to come to this city and start a journey in my life's book. Being born and raised in the hills I always wonder the life in the big city. So universe took it seriously "your wish is my command" and here I was. The city where I lost everything and that loss made me hope for new dreams and to chase those dreams. My fear gave me strength to turn my dreams into reality. During this journey I met angels, devils and healers. Someone wounded me but someone would heal me. Someone hated me but someone loved me. Someone I lost forever but someone is still with me. My journey was like to be on the road someone is still alongside me in my journey and someone left in the midway. The ride was filled with storms and rains but it was also filled with rainbows. I want to thank everyone and I am grateful that I had a roller coaster but a beautiful journey. Now this chapter in my life's book has ended I don't regret for anything rather I am proud of it. Last but not the least I will miss this city and it will always be my second home. Thanks to everyone for being the part in my chapter of my book. A new chapter a new journey has started now so see you(Delhi) until we meet again. Happy to go back to hometown and start a new chapter.

PS: It was very beautiful road trip!

Keep loving, Stay happy

Sunday, 28 April 2019

Back to the real world.

Hey Everyone!! First of all I wanted all of you know that I was completely out of touch with writing blogs due to certain circumstances. But yeah here I am to share with you some of my experiences. Travelling is still going on but its been 1 year that I am working with the corporate world again. So this time again people entered my life like a true and honest human but yeah as said life is a bitch and bitches are around us. I have no hard feelings for them coz i always believe in KARMA!! Sometimes I wonder how people get time to interfere in others life and comment on their life without being on their shoes.. First of all a round of applause and a standing ovation to all of you. You guys are inevitable for the deeds you do. If you people are my friends then i don't need enemies in my life. Thanks to you who call themselves my friends.
Well I love the fact that I have so many haters and trust me guys these kinds of people are always available like the dust on your feet. And always remember what you do with the dust, you go and wipe off your feet with water. So yeah here you know what you need to do.. Don't let them drag you down no matter how difficult the situation is. And yeah remember they are not your distractions treat them as the biggest critics to get succeed in life. You might feel a little lost for hope but keep faith upon yourself because you know who you are. One suggestion don't revert back to these people as they don't deserve your explanation. Life is too short too keep these people in your mind. Be yourself let them talk, comment judge coz God has send them in this planet with this purpose so be happy that you have so many haters otherwise you will never grow.. You remind yourself your purpose of life- to grow, to nurture yourself and to be happy. At the end you gonna cherish the memories and people will remember you for your deeds either good or bad. So choose wisely!!
Someone said- There will always be haters. And the more you grow the more they hate; the more they hate the more you grow.

PS: When you truly don't care what anyone thinks of you, you have reached a dangerously awesome level of freedom.(Copied)

Keep loving, stay Happy!!

Thursday, 26 April 2018

Be the sailor


Hey guys so here I am again after a long time. So here goes my story!!
I Quit my job!! Just to travel and explore, not actually I wanted to take a little risk to explore myself. Travelling was a part of my life's plan since childhood but never had guts to go against the odds. Life was all about education,job,marriage. It was only confined to the daily task. Being betrayed in love has taught me a lot. People say betrayal in love is destruction, pain but betrayal made me meet myself my inner self. So I quit a well paid corporate job and packed my bags and left to explore myself. And I am traveling for the last 7 months and gonna keep on travelling until my last breath. So i have learned that it's totally upon the sailor to go against the tides. Be the sailor of your own life,sail your life boat to where you feel your destination is meant to be as I always say fate is in your hands. So take a little risk and explore, it's little tough to go against the odds but not impossible. Travel as much as you explore as much you can. At the end your inner happiness is that matters a lot.

PS: Be the sailor of the ship. 
Keep loving stay happy.

Monday, 19 June 2017

Welcome what is coming!!

Miss childhood days?? I do a lot now, I miss those days where for every confusion we have our own version of inky pinky ponky. So here today at this age I am in a situation of confusion. So little confused what to do should I apply the old rule again or should i let it go and wait whatever happens will happen. Someone said open your arms and welcome what is coming, life has more to give!! It's kinda complicated for me, what about you guys!! For my confusion I don't know if I will have my answer on my plate or I need to search for it. Right now I am in metro and there are people from children to old age. By looking at them i felt everyone goes through confusion at some point of time! So I have decided to use my version of inky pinky ponky!! So here it goes I am going to search my answer coz you never know how far it can go!!

PS: Time for some answers to be searched
Keep loving, stay happy!!